• How to Deal with Family Drama Around the Holidays

    For many of us, spending time with family during the holidays is something straight out of a Hallmark movie, with days filled with comfort and joy. But for others, the holidays with family are scarier than Halloween. From the stress of traveling to the pressure of buying and wrapping gifts, and many family members can’t be in the same room without a fight erupting, holidays can be stressful!

    While you can’t necessarily stop family drama from occurring, there are some simple and effective ways you can deal with it:

    Have Realistic Expectations

    So much of the pain of the holidays comes from having unrealistic expectations. Don’t set yourself up for disappointment. Acknowledge beforehand that you and your family are human and that there may be those moments that aren’t very pleasant, and that’s okay. Life and families are messy. Recognize it, own it, and you’ll find you won’t get as upset.

    Set Your Boundaries

    Time spent with families over the holidays can also trigger us to feel like children all over again, essentially helpless. But you are an adult now, and you are not powerless. You can set those boundaries to protect your mental health. Determine before you go what you will tolerate and what you won’t. This can be for simple things like meal times and sleeping accommodations to what topics of discussion you will engage in. Be sure to share your personal limits with all involved.

    Use Good Judgement

    When the holiday drama sets in, it’s easy to want to drink more or eat more processed foods. But in large amounts, alcohol and processed sugars impair our mood and judgment. Do your best not to overindulge.

    You may also want to speak with a therapist in the weeks leading up to the holidays. They can give you tools to help you navigate the awkward and tense moments during family get-togethers.

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